Thursday, August 13, 2015

Dealing with Conflict

Last week I was in a conversation with some of my fellow clergymen about how to properly deal with disagreements and arguments in the life of the church. As I listened to that conversation I was reminded of one of my greatest heroes in the church, the great Anglican theologian, Richard Hooker. Here is a man who was born into a meager family and used what connections he could to become a priest in the church. Eventually he became a great teacher and theologian, which is what we know him for today. He is most famously credited for the three legged stool of Anglicanism as a model for how to make decisions in the Church. In this model, he tells us to first consider Scripture, then the traditions of the Church, and finally our own reason when working out how to find a solution for an issue. However, what he is less known for is the great controversy that surrounded his tenure as the rector of the famous Temple Church in London. During his first few years in his position, Richard Hooker, was constantly badgered, questioned, belittled, humiliated, bullied, and harassed by his subordinate, Walter Travers. The controversies surrounded Churchmanship, God’s will toward sin, and many other issues of critical importance to the identity of the young Anglican Church. You can read a more detailed account of the controversy by CLICKING HERE and I would strongly encourage everyone to do so. However, what is remarkable is not necessarily the contraversy itself, but that Richard Hooker, even though he could have simply fired, Walter Travers, never did. Mr. Travers was eventually removed from his post by the vestry of the church who simply got sick of his inappropriate behavior. In fact, Richard Hooker, felt that the constant attacks by Mr. Travers tended to only sharpen his intellect and helped him to think very carefully about his own position and theology. What is perhaps most interesting, is that these bouts motivated Richard Hooker to write his great series of books Of the Laws of Ecclesiastical Polity, which are one of the greatest theological writings in Christianity and certainly in Anglicanism.

What I think we can take away from this is to remember Richard Hooker’s model of humility and grace when dealing with disagreements. Perhaps we need to all look harder for God among the arguments themselves, keep an open mind about our opponent’s view, and use our disagreements to test our own understanding of what God’s will is for us and His church. However, as we do those things, I believe we must always remember to show the courtesy and brotherly love that Richard Hooker showed to Walter Travers. We must remember to give others the room to disagree and to never take action against or alienate someone because we hold a different opinion. That gentle self-effacement is a halmark of a Godly person.  Therefore, when we disagree, remember that genuine love and unity among the family of God are perhaps the most important elements for a healthy church. As St. Paul tells us, we should, “Love one another with brotherly affection and outdo one another in showing honor.”(Romans 12:10) As we seek those things, I think we would do well to look to that great founding theologian of Anglicanism, Richard Hooker, to model that life for us.